OK, I just did this AGAIN with another DS1286

- it went a lot better and I was able to plan it out.
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OK first the de-skinning was very much the right answer. I carefully heated one end and used a pocket knife to get between the plastic sheet the epoxy. It turns out the "glossy" layer between the epoxy and the plastic shell will soften first allowing you to "pry" the plastic away from the epoxy. This was my first step.
I left the top plastic on the longest, and used a soldering iron with a knife tip @650f to gently work into the hidden pins. I was able to uncover all the pins and discovered something very interesting. Both the battery and the crystal legs are soldered to the pins but they are originally stamped into "looped" ends that lasso the IC legs and are then soldered in place. You see this in some of the pictures. So I had to free the component-end of the part first, in order to either cut or desolder and push, the part off the leg to preserve the IC legs. But it was doable.
Here's what made the big different from last time....channel lock pliers (small versions). I could grip just the epoxy end with a small set of channel pliers, then heat the opposite end and work on it. Once I had enough of the legs free I found I couldn't reasonably dig underneath the legs...wasn't working well.
So I decided to chance heating and "crushing" and then cracking the epoxy using the channel locks, just on the epoxy region, not contacting the IC. I was hoping that since I had taken pressure of the back of the legs, that the cracking wouldn't damage them. This turns out to be correct.
So I used a hot air tool @ 330c and heated a section, then configured the channel lock jaws to allow me to grab with some extra travel for some crushing force without being open too wide open (for control). This allowed me to crack the epoxy in sections. I only cracked it, I didn't pry it, yet. Once cracked I examined the area, I found it's prone to cracking around the part or the legs. If that occured, I switched to the knife tip iron and carefully freed the IC legs or the battery/crystal legs (to cut if needed). Only once the IC legs were safe did I heat & pry, using two channel locks (one for both hands), in a slight twisting motion. Then it all came apart wonderfully. For the last top chunk of epoxy...I didn't dare put the channel locks on the IC. So I used my smaller chanel locks to cruch the last section independently after heating (no second pliers for my other hand). Then cleared the cracked section with a small pair of pliers while I was holding one end of the IC with my hands.
The results speak for themselves. You don't have this level of fine control with a dremel, thought I wouldn't say it's wrong to get into the shell and the components using a dremel, if you could.
I used a small pair of pliers to clean up the edges of the IC legs and excess epoxy along with the knife tip, of course. Gently working between the legs of IC and also the extreme sides to remove what I could.
While my vise idea would have worked, my vise isn't conveniently near my soldering area, so I didn't use it. But I'd still think a linear crushing force from a vise in the middle of the epoxy, after de-skinning would likely be faster!
So I'll stick with this for ICs I'm going to use the glitchworks tops on. It works and I have the control I think I need. My only concern is...it's very easy to lose reference of which part is the front of the IC. I'm having to go by the asymmetry of the legs during socket insertion. I wish the PCB had better indicators on it. But that's a minor issue.
I did just get the rapid epoxy I ordered as well, So I'm close to assembly...bad news is I don't have setup space for my Indigo2s right now. So testing will have to wait until another time...yeah I know I'm not thrilled either.