Decided to fix my own Onyx's memory problems.
When I pulled the MC3 I noticed that the offending memory sticks were all 'double decker' high density SIMMs.
Pulled, cleaned and re-seated everything.
This didn't change a thing.
Since I apparently had two faulty banks I decided to move sticks around in order to find the faulty one in each bank of four.
Oh, did I mention that in order to remove the MC3 in an Onyx IR you have to remove the protective metal bar across the board handles, and in order to remove that you need to remove the big 'jumper' across the IR board? And that last one is a major pain in the $$$ to remove. All for a dirty/faulty SIMM. At least I now know the system will POST without that jumper installed...
Anyway, my memory SIMM swapping didn't result in anything so I decided to take an empty MC3 and use that for my experiments. That's when I noticed little SMD capacitors on my desk

You see, there's a protective sheet of plastic on the backside of the IP25 CPU board in the next slot. The MC3 SIMMs were 'eating' the edge of it every time I reinstalled the MC3 so I probably pushed the MC3 a little too far left, and the backside of the MC3 rubbed the chassis gasket and lost some parts.
After that, the MC3 never worked again. It disables all memory banks at POST and the system panics.
Fortunately, I have spare MC3s. Unfortunately, they're all filled with low density memory (512MB) and I want my 2GB. Then again, one of them had the same protective plastic on the back that my IP25 has. No more rubbing against the chassis. Made sure the system booted with it (the skin of your fingers hates the procedure of removing 32 SIMMs and cleaning everything with pure alcohol so you don't want to do this and then find out the MC3 suffers from a bloody POK-A error).
Glued the protective plastic to the back of the IP25 with some superglue so the MC3 doesn't get stuck on it. Found 4 working sims from the 2 disabled banks of high density memory using a spare MC3. Found one complete bank of high density SIMMs in my infinite collection of spares. Removed and cleaned all low density memory from the MC3-with-proctective-backside-cover. Transplanted all working high density memory to it. Have system that POSTs once again.
So there you have it. This is life with an Onyx1: a simple memory fault escalates into 2 or 3 evenings of disassembly, cleaning and more damage, and only a good stock of spares saved the day.
Next up: my Challenge L. It throws a -12VDC over-voltage and refuses to power on. The only place where -12VDC exists in these is the IO4 VCAM. I replaced the IO4 but the fault remained. Meh. I think I'll replace the system controller next (this means rear side disassembly...), maybe the monitoring circuit is bad. Otherwise it would mean I have not one but two broken VCAMs in my hands, and I'd have to attach some test wires to measure the actual voltages that the system complains about.
Finally; the Onyx isn't even fully fixed yet. I do not have a single RM6 board that will pass irsaudit, and the damage is beyond simple pixel faults on the screen, it crashes the X server in no time.
If anyone reads this and has a good RM6 board (or an entire Onyx IR ...) that they want to get rid of, let me know.